“I am of the opinion that you are not completed as a person with a child, you are already complete”
In an in -depth confession the Anthi Bulgarianthis week, in Vita magazine. Among many others, the pregnant presenter spoke from the heart about her efforts to become pregnant as well as the “must” of Greek society to women who are not mothers.
More specifically, Anthi Bulgarian was characterized as “It’s a trip with many ups and downs. Pregnancy is a very pleasant fact, especially when you are aware and you want it, as well as a situation with too many changes. And physical and psychological. Your life is suddenly changing and these changes continue day by day, and as the months go by, they become faster. However, I treat them all with calm.
Was it something you had planned?
Yes. I had entered an IVF process. It is well known that when a woman catches 38, the pressures begin. And doctors tell you that you have no room and you get this stress. I think it’s a big limit for the woman – and awesome bowling. So I was stressed that I am 38 and I am not catching up. So, I got into an IVF cycle.
I had done four to five and in the summer I decided it would be my last attempt. I talked to my doctor and I told him I would do it as soon as I finished the show, to be in a tranquility. I was so liberated and said, “Whatever it is to do, let’s be done.” Because I am of the opinion that you are not completed as a person with a child. You are already complete. I always waited not to be repulsed in my life and then to make the decision to have a child if it came about.
So do you feel that there is a “must” in Greek society for both having a child and when to do it?
Of course, this causes incredible stress. Because many women do not want to have a child, they are not reprehensible. They do not want or cannot from one point onwards and they have come to terms with it, they have embraced it, they have caressed it beautifully and the surroundings come and tells them: “Really, don’t you have a kid? Baby, what a pity. “ There was a time when the world around me made me feel a little. Fortunately, it didn’t last long because I worked it inside me.
I was not a little bit, I just had no kid. I have fallen into a juncture to be cut off from friends because I had no child, because the others were moms and they thought we had no common interests. But when a woman gets a child, she’s not just a mom, she has other roles. And I want to maintain them. I never want to tell my child that I was sacrificed for him. It is very heavy for the child.
